Relationship Revival: The Happily Ever After Method
Relationship Revival: The Happily Ever After Method
Because lasting love isn’t luck, it’s understanding, healing,
and choice.
You didn’t come into this relationship expecting to feel disconnected.
But maybe now, it feels like something’s missing.
Like you’re not being seen or heard the way you need.
Like your efforts aren’t acknowledged.
Like you’re carrying too much, or not being let in.
Like the closeness you once had is harder to access, or just not there anymore.
Sometimes it’s the heated arguments that leave both of you drained.
Sometimes it’s the avoidance... the walking on eggshells or the conversations that never quite happen.
Sometimes it’s the quiet distance that grows when you’re just surviving your way through the days, living more like housemates than partners.
However it looks, the experience is consistent:
Unseen.
Unheard.
Unvalued.
Unloved.
But this isn’t a sign that the relationship is broken, or that either of you are.
It’s a sign that your nervous systems are in protection mode.
Patterns like fight, flight, freeze or fawn aren’t character flaws. They’re adaptive responses. And when those patterns collide between two people who love each other, fear wins, and connection starts to feel uncomfortable or impossible, even when you want it more than anything.
Because lasting love isn’t luck, it’s understanding, healing, and choice.
You didn’t come into this relationship expecting to feel disconnected.
But maybe now, it feels like something’s missing.
Like you’re not being seen or heard the way you need.
Like your efforts aren’t acknowledged.
Like you’re carrying too much, or not being let in.
Like the closeness you once had is harder to access, or just not there anymore.
Sometimes it’s the heated arguments that leave both of you drained.
Sometimes it’s the avoidance... the walking on eggshells or the conversations that never quite happen.
Sometimes it’s the quiet distance that grows when you’re just surviving your way through the days, living more like housemates than partners.
However it looks, the experience is consistent:
Unseen.
Unheard.
Unvalued.
Unloved.
But this isn’t a sign that the relationship is broken, or that either of you are.
It’s a sign that your nervous systems are in protection mode.
Patterns like fight, flight, freeze or fawn aren’t character flaws. They’re adaptive responses. And when those patterns collide between two people who love each other, fear wins, and connection starts to feel uncomfortable or impossible, even when you want it more than anything.
What if there was another way?
Relationship Revival: The Happily Ever After Method is an 8-week live group program facilitated by our incredible partner, Tehilla Luttig, that helps individuals and couples:
Recognise the patterns that keep you stuck in the same cycles.
Build tools that create safety and understanding rather than defensiveness and blame.
Repair trust and intimacy in a way that honours both partners.
Communicate clearly without collapsing, criticising, or over-explaining.
Create healthy boundaries that invite connection instead of pushing each other away.
This isn’t about nagging, fixing, or forcing someone to change. It’s about creating safety, clarity, and compassion, within yourself and between you.
Why this approach
is different
❌ We don’t label one person as “the problem.”
❌ We don’t use blame or shame to motivate change.
❌ We don’t offer quick-fix scripts that only keep the peace temporarily.
Instead, we help you understand the survival patterns that run the show, and teach you the tools and skills so you can rewire them.
FINALLY get relationship support that deals with the root
What You’ll Learn:
Pre-Work: Hidden Patterns Assessment
Get clarity on the survival responses and relational patterns shaping your relationship.
Week 1: Understanding Your Patterns
Identify how fight, flight, freeze, and fawn play out between you. Build compassion for yourself and your partner.
Week 2: Communication That Creates Safety
Learn how to express your needs without nagging, withdrawing, or over-explaining.
Week 3: Repairing Conflict
Tools for rupture and repair, healthy apologies, and validation that lands.
Week 4: Emotional Awareness
Decode what’s really happening beneath anger, shame, and reactivity. Build skills for self-regulation and co-regulation.
Week 5: Boundaries That Protect Connection
Learn the difference between requests and boundaries, and how to set them in a way that fosters cooperation.
Week 6: Releasing Resentment
Understand resentment as unprocessed grief and protection. Let go of the invisible load without poisoning your connection.
Week 7: Rebuilding Trust & Intimacy
Step into closeness again with practical tools for trust and deeper intimacy.
Week 8: Designing Your Relationship Future
Create rhythms, agreements, and shared intentions to carry forward.
BONUS Week 9 (Integration Week): Continued Support
One week of post-program community support to integrate the tools into daily life.
How it works
8 Weekly Live Calls (via Zoom)
Each call focuses on a core relationship pillar - patterns, communication, conflict repair, emotions, boundaries, trust, intimacy, and designing your future.
Group Support Between Sessions
You’ll be part of a private online community hosted by one of our therapeutic partners and relationship expert, Tehilla, where you can ask questions, celebrate wins, and get real-time support. You also have the option of joining our Personal Mastery program for expert fortnightly live coaching, integration and ongoing implementation with Dr Ashleigh Moreland, too!
Guided Practices & Workbooks
Journaling prompts, reflections, and scripts you can use at home to deepen the work.
Replay Access
All calls are recorded so you never miss a session.
Investment
Individual Enrolment
$997 USD
This option gives you full access to the 8-week live program, the private community, all session replays, and the workbook resources - everything you need to create meaningful change in your relationship, whether or not your partner attends with you. Many participants choose this path and still experience powerful shifts.
Couple
Enrolment
$1450 USD
Join the program together and create shared language, tools, and understanding as a couple. This option includes full access for two people, supporting both of you to move through the experience side by side, while also doing your individual inner work along the way.
Personal Mastery
Add On
$99 USD / person / month
For those wanting deeper integration, you can add ongoing support through Re-MIND’s Personal Mastery membership. Includes fortnightly live coaching with Dr Ashleigh Moreland, ongoing implementation support, and access to a like-minded community doing the inner work across relationships, parenting, mental health, and self-leadership.
Additional Support Options
Price TBA
If you're navigating complex trauma, grief, high-conflict dynamics, or you're seeking personalised therapeutic or coaching support, you may benefit from working 1:1 with Tehilla / Dr Ash, or exploring one of Re‑MIND Institute’s targeted programs designed to meet you where you're at. Email [email protected] for a free consultation to figure out the best fit
Who is Tehilla Luttig?
Tehilla is a valued partner practitioner of the Re‑MIND Institute and the lead facilitator of Relationship Revival: The Happily Ever After Method.
With over 15 years’ experience as a trauma-informed relationship therapist, she supports individuals and couples through a compassionate, nervous system-aware lens. Her approach weaves together attachment theory, parts work, and practical tools for emotional safety and relational repair.
Clients describe her presence as grounding, honest, and deeply human.
Tehilla doesn’t just teach connection, she creates the conditions for it for every participant of this program. Every session is guided by her commitment to clarity, care, and genuine transformation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do we both need to attend?
No. Many people attend alone and still see shifts in their relationship. Your changes often interrupt the old pattern for both of you.
What if we miss a session?
All sessions are recorded and available within 24 hours.
Is this therapy?
This is a therapeutic, trauma-aware coaching program. It draws on therapy tools but is not a replacement for targeted therapy if you’re working through deep trauma. We have many other programs at Re-MIND Institute that can support you with that - reach out to [email protected] for a free consultation.
I’m not sure if I want to stay in the relationship. Is this still for me?
Yes. The clarity and skills you gain will support you either way, whether you rebuild the relationship or move forward separately.